If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then give up.

I just published a story called “Waiting for Mishy” in a magazine called Uncharted. I mention this for two reasons. First, I’m thrilled! Second, I want to briefly tell you the story of this story.

I started writing it in 2022. I finished it in 2023. I sold it in January of 2026. Uncharted posted it last week. By literary standards, that is faster than a speeding bullet.

And in the three years I spent trying to find a home for “Waiting for Mishy,” it was rejected 47 times.

Obviously, there are three things you need as a writer:

  1. A place and time to write.
  2. Persistence.
  3. An armor-plated psyche.
  4. When I first started writing, this list included typewriter ribbons.

You can do your life’s work in 30 minutes a day. You can do it in 15. You can write in a room of your own, at your kitchen table, at a coffee shop, in a library, or, like one writer I knew, in the back of a car.

You can write for a few years and then give up because everything is moving at about the same speed as a cat sleeping in a sunbeam. You can give up because you fear the rejection the way you fear the Reaper. Or you could follow Robert A. Heinlein’s fifth rule of writing: You must keep what you write on the market until it is sold.

[Note to the ghost of Heinlein: In 2021, I sold a story called “Schmitt Takes the Night Off” to The Buckman Journal (it’s behind a paywall) (not a problem for you, since you’re a ghost) that was rejected 69 times over 11 years.]

Rejection, I must remind you, is the river in which we swim. “You will write many more failures than successes,” Richard Bausch said. “You never ask yourself anything beyond, ‘Did I work today?’ ”

Or, as Jeff Lieber put it, “Write every day about something you give a shit about.”

Be patient.

2 thoughts on “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then give up.

  1. zanyc314dddad6d's avatar zanyc314dddad6d says:

    You are a model of discipline compared to me. Congratulations on getting your story published. I don’t normally write poems but I’ve somehow gotten a few published. And a “creative non-fiction” piece. And one short story. I think that’s it. There have been a few nice comments here and there from editors. I go years between attempts. I think you’ve inspired me to try again. I’ll tell my neurodivergent brain (it likes having that label from a smart doctor) that I won’t subject it to a real chart for tracking submissions. I will yield to its preference for colorful sticky notes on my apartment door (in my face when I exit) or, even better, the ones on my microwave oven door. I may get away with index cards, but I’m not sure.

    • My dear Neuro D: Whatever system works for you is the system for you. As for your published oeuvre, remember the words of Erika Krouse: “Every publication is a good publication. If you get your work published somewhere, celebrate!”

      Sticky notes eventually unstick…but index cards pinned to the wall are forever. Pin ’em all, let your landlord sort ’em out!

      Ms. Krouse, who is a writer, teacher, and coach, offers some thoughtful submission strategies:
      http://www.erikakrousewriter.com/submission-strategies

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